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s , Hi 1 as _ MALEKULA and moving about the house. A man and his wife may only talk a little and in a subdued voice if they are in the presence of her parents ; the woman is less restrained than the man in this respect, since she is their daughter, but even she must always be more quiet than they, who for their part are expected to do all the talking, and in a loud authoritative tone} The father-in- law is described as being like " a big master Further, a man or woman eating in the presence of aparent-in-law must turn away his or her head, since it is indecorous for the latter to see the mouth of a child-in-law while eating. A special form of courteous address is employed by anyone offering food to a parent~in-law ; the giver says gules " look ", instead of the common gum “ eat ". In other ways, too, a man shows deference to his wife's father. He avoids touching any goods belonging to the latter. If a man allows a stick, arrow, or other object, which he is holding, or which belongs to him, to come into contact with anything belonging to his father~in-law, as, for instance, his sleeping mat, he is ï¬Åned; he may not even touch a stick on which his wife’s father is carrying a bundle. _ .. Another restriction on behaviour exists between a woman and her son-in-law, and a man and his daughter-in-law. No Woman may climb up anywhere in the presence of her husband's father, nor may she even stand upon a box or stone in order to reach anything if he is present. She would, however, show no hesitation in doing any of these things before her moflaer-in-law. A man is restricted in the same way in the presence of his wife's mother, but is free to climb if only his father-in-law is by. The reason for the tabu on a man climbing in front of his wife’: mother was said to be lest in doing so his penis wrapper should slip down and he should thereby, inadvertently, expose himself “indecentlyâ€ù before her. It is probably safe to assume that the corresponding tabu on a woman climbing exists for the same reason. Joking indecently in the presence of the spouse's parents is, of course, also an offence. The penalty for committing any of these prohibited actions ‘ It is not quite certain from the notes whether this delerential behaviour gs characteristic oi Seniang and Wilemp, or oi only one of these disti-icts.— -rq 2
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