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2 it 3. l‘i TWP" |, 1,; - KINSHIP ORGANIZATION IN NORTH-WEST 101 side of the family, receives a share of the bride-price, as does the mother's father also. In general a boy has the privilege of appropriating his maternal uncle's goods for his ovum needs during the lifetime of the latter, and, in return, he owes him strict obedience. Contrary to the practice of Seniang, a man is more or less free to obey or disobey his father, but the commands of his mother's brother are law. Thus, should the latter say to his nephew, “ Come, let us go and ï¬Åght," the boy will go with him, even though his father should forbid him to do so. If the father were determined to prevent his boy going off with his wife's brother, he would have to use drastic methods. On the other hand, were the father to tell his son to join him in a ï¬Åght, and the maternal uncle to forbid him to go, the lad would desist and stay at home. But although a man owes great obedience to his mother's brother, their relations are those of mutual friendship, rather than of authority on the one hand and subservience on the other. The attitude of the nephew is that though his uncle must be obeyed, he is, at the same time, a “good sport ". If a man dies or is injured as a'result of carrying out orders given to him by his mother's brother, the latter must pay the boy’s father a pig in compensation; in the same way, should death or injury be brought about by some command of the father's, he must make ‘similar compensation to the maternal uncle. _ _ Although the terms for mother's brother and father's sister's husband are the same (bimbi), the patterns of behaviour towards ‘th_es'e&"two m’en are distinct. A man has, apparently, no special towards the latter, but treats him with a certain respect aiid‘is'hot'allowed to " chaff â€ù (sembwesam) him. Brother and Sister I A brother and sister are somewhat reserved in their relations with each other, which is in marked contrast to the familiar friendliness permitted in Seniang. If a. girl is alone in a house and her brother comes to speak to her, he will not go inside, but will stand and speak from the door. It is not considered proper for brother and sister to go about together, and should they, perforce, walk along a path in each other’s company, the man is
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