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MARRIAGE AND RELATIONS OF SEXES 153 mbuia Looru, the clan with which the Uraau people were most friendly. Ainggil Burei gave his six imap pigs to Ambong Mweil and took Luus Mbuas for wife, who, being a young girl, had no choice but to do as she was bid. In a few years, however, she developed into a strapping, highly sexed woman, whose physical demands Ainggil Burei (always something of a weakling) was unable to meet. It was found indeed that he was impotent—~ a fact which Luus Mbuas was not slow to make public. She therefore consoled herself in other directions, especially with one Ainding Mba.‘ai, for whom she conceived a strong passion, and with whom she lived for a month. The men of her own village, Uraau, sympathized with her position as a wife, and claimed that Ainggil Burei should allow her to divorce him on the grounds of his impotence. They conceded, further, thatthey would he willing to repay him half the value of the pigs which he had given to Arnbong Mweil as bride-wealth. To such a settlement, however, Ainggil Burei, backed by his powerful brother and the other men of Eviin Viliil, would not agree. On the contrary, he maintained that he had never‘ had proper use of Luus Mbuas as a wife, that therefore the contract was void, and that it was preposterous to debit him with half the value of the bride- wealth for the period during which they had been married. To this the people of Uraau retorted that in any case the marriage wasiincestuous, and that because this was so, and because of his‘inability to satisfy Luus Mbuas, Ainggil Burei had done her wrong,-» and that therefore it was he who owed compensation, and not'they'who should pay it to him. How the dispute ended we are not told, but the general opinion oi the public seems to be that if a man has given a big bride-pr-ice, as Ainggil Burei had- done, impotence on his part does not justify the woman in leaving him, unless the bride-price be repaid almost in full; that failing such a repayment, the deserted husband would be justified if he were to shoot his wife’s paramour. If, on the other hand, the bride-price had been small or miserly, then the husband's impotence would supply amply justiï¬Åcation for the wife leaving him, and any attempt on his part, either to recover the bride-price or to avenge his honour on the woman's lover, would be regarded with disfavour by the other members of society. Despite the risks involved, adulterous intrigues are a more -Z
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