| 
[Note: this transcription was produced by an automatic OCR engine]
I64 MALEKULA In the event of a marriage before puberty, the full ceremony and payment take place at the time of the "legal" marriage, and no further transactions or rites are performed when the girl has attained maturity; she. simply leaves her people and goes to live with her husband. In the second type of marriage where the bride is a widow, the power of her father or her brother in controlling her selection of a spouse is relatively very limited. A man who conceives a desire for such a woman may speak to her directly, telling her that he wishes to marry her. Similarly a widow desiring a certain man may address him directly on the subject, instead of using her father and the ma.n’s sister as go-betweens. Should the suitor send an emissary to the widow’s father to ask for her hand, then before giving his reply the father will always ask his daughter what her inclinations are, and, ii she has no liking for the man, will generally refuse the suitor’s advances. The woman is said to be ni momogh iiliil, one who is no longer innocent and unenlightened, but having a will and judgment of her ovum. Her father, therefore, discusses the proposed marriage with her more or less on terms of equality, though the temptationiofi a good bargain still retains a strong influence over him. If the marriage is agreed upon, there is, apparently, no ceremonial; the pigs are handed over by the bridegroom and the woman goes home with him. The change in a woman’s status resulting from her marriage is recognized socially in Lagalag, by a change in the mode of addressing her. A man can say mbiiraz/[in to an unmarried daughter, but the form temgam is always used in speaking to a married woman.‘ Polygamy A large number of men have only one wife, while the number of unmarried men and widowers is considerable. Prominent men, as, for instance, the sons of former chiefs, may have two or three wives, but it is only among chiefs themselves that we ï¬Ånd the extensive polygyny of from eight to twelve or twenty wives. The reasons given by the natives for the practice of polygyny are threefold : to have a woman to work in the garden 1 The meaning of these words is unfortunately not rec0tded.—C. W. zl E 5 z F ij I
|