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I70 MALEKULA may please himself with other women, yet she can be justly indignant if he neglects her, and in Lamburnbu a wife will not infrequently beat her husband's genitals with the very painful leaves of the nettle-tree if he is remiss in doing his duty by her. There are, however, certain periods and occasions when it is necessary for him to refrain from having intercourse with her. Thus, sexual relations must cease as soon as she shows the ï¬Årst signs of pregnancy, nor may they be renewed until some time after the birth of the ï¬Årst child.‘ Further, before undertaking certain activities, a man must wholly eschew all contact with women. Sexual intercourse is considered to be antipathetic to certain ritual practices, and many of the limitations and restrictions which regulate cohabitation are connected with the ceremonial life of a man. Thus, for ten days before making a Nimangki, for an equal or longer time before making death magic (mzai mih), on the day on which he sets out on the war- path, and for the whole time that he is acting guardian to a boy during the incision ceremonies, a man must refrain from having relations with any woman. A further rule is that a man who has cohabitecl with his wife on the previous night may not enter a new garden, a prohibition which is also found in Seniahg. This regulation does not apply to gardens in which the yams are almost ready to be harvested, but only to those where the plants are still young and growing. As regards homosexual practices, it is recorded that in Lambumbu and Lagalag, those between men are only occasional and sporadic. This is in marked contrast to the customs of the Big Nambas, living to the north, where they have been raised to the rank of an institution. By the people of these districts it is considered foolish, mad, or bad. Between women, however, homosexuality is common, many women being generally known as Lesbians, or in the native tenn nimamogh iap nimumogh (“ woman has intercourse with woman â€ù). It is regarded as a form of play, but, at the same time, it is clearly recognized as a deï¬Ånite type of sexual desire, and that the women do it because it gives them pleasure. The following are terms used in connection with marriage l Unfortunately it is not recorded how long an interval must elapse after the birth of the child before the husband is allowed to resume conjugal relations. —C. H. W. , J
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