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DEATH AND DISPOSAL or Tl-IE DEAD 543 but according to Layard (206) in the event of a young child's death only the mother goes into mourning. It is the widow whose conduct is most carefully restricted and regulated. Until the time when the pigs are paid after the death-feast for the destroying of the fence and the loosening of the mourning she remains inside the house, crouched beside her husband's bier and hidden from view by the fence at its foot. She tends the ï¬Åre and smears herself with its ashes. If her dead husband's brother is a good man, he, or some of his kinsmen, will see to it that she is supplied with food. But not infrequently he will be very angry with her, saying that she is responsible for her husband's death, and he will neglect attending to her in any way. Then her own clansmen or father or brother will visit her and bring her food. In either case she is only allowed to eat very, very little. She may not leave the house alone, in any circumstances. Early morning and evening, some woman, generally the wife of one of her dead husband's brothers, comes to her and takes her to the latrine, but these are the only occasions on which she goes out of the hut. During her seclusion no man may speak to her. Were anyone to do so, the friends and clans- men of the deceased would suspect that this man had secretly wished to have her as his wife and had, therefore, sought magical means to kill her husband. Consequently, they might wreak their wrath on him who had infringed this tabu of silence. MEMORIALS or THE DEAD After the corpse has decayed and the skull has been removed from it to form the head of the memorial effigy, the remaining bones are left on the stretcher. In the chapter dealing with totemisrn, the annual fertility ceremony or nearew of the clan will be described. ’It is on this occasion that the bones of all those who have died within the year are gathered together and placed in the nembrmbrkon, the sacred ground, of the clan, which is both its religious centre and its charnel-house. On the death of Apwll Naandu only the smaller bones were thus disposed of, for the limb bones were kept in the new umel which was built on the occasion of the “ making " of Nalmmm M brillendew in his memory. This, however, was rather exceptional, and would only be done for a man of importance.
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